Both sesame and mustard oils are found in Indian household customs, though their usage does not strictly adhere to a clear north-south divide. Sesame oil is particularly associated with many descriptions of Abhyanga Snan. Mustard oil also has familiar regional uses, including lamps and household massage.
Ask what the oil is for
An oil chosen for a diya is not necessarily appropriate for skin. Factors like packaging, scent, and purpose are important. Store lamp oil apart from bathing items, and avoid applying any product to the body just because it is stored in the puja cupboard.
Respect family variation
One household might use sesame oil for the ritual bath, another a common substitute, and yet another none at all. Local climate, accessibility, and individual preference shape these practices. Refrain from making sweeping statements that every family in a given state uses the same oil.
Use less and keep surfaces clear
A small quantity is simpler to manage than a large one. Avoid heating oil to an excessively high temperature. Have a towel on hand and promptly clean up any spills to prevent anyone from walking on a slippery floor.
Choose participation over comparison
If a person cannot tolerate the customary oil, simplify the bath. The family's shared greeting and intention of renewal remain available. Cultural continuity does not depend on choosing a product that makes someone uncomfortable.
References & further reading
References to calendars and rituals indicate specific traditions; actual household practices may vary. Practical planning tips are provided as editorial advice. Be sure to choose your own city and year before utilizing the times shown on a calendar.