Hosting timeline
| When | Task |
|---|---|
| Day before | confirm guests/guardians, allergies and number of children |
| Morning | prepare seating, puja area and gift bags |
| Cooking window | make food early enough to avoid rushing but keep it fresh |
| Before ceremony | set water/towels only if foot-washing is part of your family custom |
| Meal | serve children comfortably and without pressure |
| Closing | give gifts, thank families and clean the space |
Respect and consent
Children are participants, not props. Explain what will happen, involve guardians, do not force foot washing or photos, and accommodate children who are shy, neurodivergent or uncomfortable with touch.